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		<title>India threatens to ban Blackberry &#8211; again?</title>
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		<description><![CDATA[Did RIM sell out users to avoid blackberry ban in india? It seems RIM already gave India the encryption codes and nobody knew until now!]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><center><font color=red>See point #3; it&#8217;s the major shocker that&#8217;s not covered by most news sites</font></center><br />
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<h3>July 1st &#8211; India threatens to ban Blackberry</h3>
<p>According to <a href="http://news.yahoo.com/s/pcworld/20100701/tc_pcworld/reportsblackberryskypegooglefaceindiadatademand" target="_blan2">Yahoo</a>, RIM got served a 15 day notice on July 1st 2010 to allow India&#8217;s government to access their client&#8217;s information (such as sent emails, etc.).<br />
There was a lot of chatter online regarding privacy on the tech websites such as Slashdot, but generally the comments on indian news websites were a &#8220;follow our rules or get out&#8221;.<br />
So July 16th rolled around and&#8230;. nothing happened. At least nothing the news/internet picked up. So it seemed that the threat of banning the blackberry in India has gone the way of India&#8217;s &#8220;$10 computer&#8221; (which ended up being never heard from again).</p>
<h3>July 28th &#8211; India threatens RIM again</h3>
<p>Suddenly today, news agencies started reporting that India has threatened another ban, although this time without a definite deadline.<br />
The current revival of this issue seems to be just a case of India getting jealous. Supposedly RIM is setting up a server in China, and India is going &#8220;why can&#8217;t we get one too?&#8221;</p>
<p>Times of India says:</p>
<blockquote><p>The fresh confrontation comes after reports that RIM was ready to set up a server in China to address Chinese security concerns.<br />
The home ministry has asked the department of telecommunication (DoT) to check the veracity of reports of a server being set up in China and then press the Canadian company to do the same in India.</p></blockquote>
<h3>Did RIM sell out its users already?</h3>
<p>Did RIM ALREADY give out its encryption codes (and thereby sell out its customer base worldwide)?</p>
<blockquote><p>An indian news agency reports &#8220;tensions were defused after RIM agreed to provide its encryption code to security agencies&#8221; in reference to the first time Blackberry was threatened with a ban years ago.</p></blockquote>
<p>According to Times of India, <font color=red>RIM has already given out the encryption codes</font>; so the current confrontation is over India complaining that China gets a RIM-server while India didn&#8217;t rather than just getting access to your emails.</p>
<h3>Implications to blackberry users</h3>
<p>Unless Blackberry encryption is region specific, beware that Indian intelligence agencies (known for their corruption) may be eavesdropping on your emails. They may claim it only affects Indian users, but how do they judge that? Someone&#8217;s who&#8217;s been in India once? Someone who&#8217;s received an email from an Indian citizen?</p>
<h3>Why might RIM do it?</h3>
<p>Why would RIM give away their encryption keys? I want to say that the news article by Times of India got it wrong, that RIM didn&#8217;t sell out the rest of the world for a few bucks in India (where the Average Revenue per User is very low already, so it&#8217;s literally a few bucks). But if the article is correct, then the only two reasons I can think of would be economical or legal.<br />
Economical: They don&#8217;t want to lose out on a &#8220;big&#8221; economy, population wise, even if profit per user is dead low and dropping<br />
Legal: They don&#8217;t want to be seen as discriminating against Indians Apparently they already co-operate with US Intelligence agencies, so to not do so may seem racist. Although US intelligence agencies are held to far stricter accountability standards than Indian ones.<br />
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		<title>Take advantage of valentine&#8217;s day to spark new romance!</title>
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		<description><![CDATA[Hey all, Valentine&#8217;s day isn&#8217;t only a day to rejoice if you&#8217;re in a relationship. It&#8217;s an opportunity for you when you&#8217;re single too. Women the world over (where valentine&#8217;s day is being celebrated) will be looking to spend this day with a guy. So your job is simply to be that guy. But How? [...]]]></description>
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<p>Valentine&#8217;s day isn&#8217;t only a day to rejoice if you&#8217;re in a relationship. It&#8217;s an opportunity for you when you&#8217;re single too.<br />
Women the world over (where valentine&#8217;s day is being celebrated) will be looking to spend this day with a guy. So your job is simply to be that guy.</p>
<p>But How?<br />
With Valentine&#8217;s Day so close, you need something fast and simple that you can use now. The context for using this is when you know the girl, either having just recently met or known each other for years. As long as she doesn&#8217;t feel anything negative towards you, this is a good starting line.</p>
<p>The line you tell her (or text/message to her, if you&#8217;re too worried about calling), is this:</p>
<p>&#8220;What&#8217;re you doing this Sunday? Let&#8217;s meet up, I want to see you. How about meeting at LOCATION at TIME?&#8221;</p>
<p>It&#8217;s that simple. Maybe even send that to several girls. If you have too many, you can schedule one for Saturday (the day before Valentine&#8217;s Day) because girls will still be thinking about Valentine&#8217;s Day. As for what you actually do during your mini &#8220;date&#8221; (notice that we didn&#8217;t call the meeting up a date; we don&#8217;t want her to feel pressured in any way. However, by saying &#8220;I want to see you&#8221;, the context is implied, and if you do the right things, it can easily turn romantic), is up to you. I recommend reading my book Dating Revolution Method. It&#8217;s available as a EBook on at http://www.datingmanualadvice.com or by paperback format on Amazon at http://www.amazon.com/dp/1449994407/</p>
<p>I recommend the EBook version since you&#8217;ll get it quicker.</p>
<p>Feel free to share this article with your friends too!</p>
<p>Best wishes and good hunting,<br />
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<p>Introduction<br />
Asian women are wonderful. They put in so much effort into their men, that men of diverse ethnicities want to meet and seduce asian women. This <a title="dating manual" href="http://www.datingmanualadvice.com"><strong>dating manual</strong></a> <span style="text-decoration: underline;">snippet</span> will give you some brief tips on how to meet asian women and then attract asian women.</p>
<p>Remember<br />
The following guidelines may not always be true. For example, there will be cases where some asian women will be more independent than their non-asian counterparts. However, these guidelines aren&#8217;t supposed to be &#8220;sum up the asian race in one program&#8221;. It&#8217;s designed to help you achieve your goals, which is to successfully meet asian women and date asian women.<br />
If this guide helps you understand and achieve success with 95% of the asian women you meet, do you really care that it doesn&#8217;t cover the other 5%? Exactly.</p>
<p><strong>Understanding 1 &#8211; Community Based</strong><br />
Asian culture is more community based. Asians, especially asian women, try to fit in. Thus they are more unlikely than other races to engage in behavior that goes against the norm. There&#8217;s a saying in Japanese, &#8220;If someone sticks out, hammer it back in&#8221; (a humorous analogy to the &#8220;If a nail sticks out, hammer it back in&#8221; advice).</p>
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<li><a href="http://www.datingmanualadvice.com/">Dating Manual targetted towards asian women</a><br />
This dating manual was written by a chinese person who has dated chinese, korean, japanese, and taiwanese girls in multiple cities. Girls who barely speak english to girls who were born in Canada/USA. This is the guide for you.</li>
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<div id="txtd_6148716"><strong>Understanding 2 &#8211; Discreetness is key</strong><br />
That is not to say that you cannot seduce asian women into doing one night stands. Her reputation amongst her societal group isn&#8217;t hurt if nobody finds out about it. Thus discreetness is key. In fact, discretion is one of the traits of a romantic hero.<br />
As long as you can protect her reputation, she can be free to do things with you that she really wants to, but society may forbid and/or look down upon.</p>
<p><strong>Method 1 &#8211; Approval by her friends</strong><br />
One of the two main ways to meet an asian girl and seduce her would be through a socially approved way. This includes meeting her through friends, through school, etc. It&#8217;s a way that her social group would consider a normal way for her to meet a guy. If you go through this route, you should integrate yourself fully into her social life by making her friends think of you as a good person for her. Thus they will encourage her to hook up with you. Two things to beware of when using this method would be she may feel overly pressured by her social group (contrary to popular belief, her friends asking her daily &#8220;are you going to date him?&#8221; can actually backfire when dealing with a shy asian girl because of social pressure and how she responds to it).</p>
<p><strong>Method 2 &#8211; Anonymous hookup approach</strong><br />
This method will be skipped in this article because you will need to understand and be comfortable on how to meet women anywhere (eg: coffee shops, on the bus, etc.) before you can accomplish this.  See the full dating manual for more info on how to do this.</p>
<p><strong>Further reading</strong><br />
Despite the cultural differences, one of the key things to remember is that asian women are still women. In order to attract asian women, you still need to display the qualities such as confidence, leadership, etc. of a romantic hero that women are naturally attracted to. I highly recommend that you read, reread, and most importantly, apply the concepts of my complete dating manual in order to truly catapult your dating life success.</p>
<p>I hope you enjoyed this guide and I&#8217;m sure you&#8217;ll enjoy an asian woman <img src='http://www.rlsocial.com/blog/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_smile.gif' alt=':)' class='wp-smiley' /> </p>
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		<title>What&#8217;s the difference between a good guy and a nice guy?</title>
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		<description><![CDATA[A GOOD GUY (what we&#8217;re about) is someone who is a good person. Instead of trying to be confident, he is OK with who he is. He respects and adores women, and he lets her know this. He isn&#8217;t afraid to show her he cares and gives her the freedom to choose. A NICE GUY [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>A <b>GOOD GUY</b> (what we&#8217;re about) is someone who is a good person. Instead of trying to be confident, he is OK with who he is. He respects and adores women, and he lets her know this. He isn&#8217;t afraid to show her he cares and gives her the freedom to choose.</p>
<p>A <b>NICE GUY</b> (what we laugh at) is someone who pretends to be a good guy. He may open doors, drive girls around, pays for expensive dinners, etc. But he does this from a place of wanting something. He wants to get into her pants, like any other straight guy.</p>
<p>Let&#8217;s use a bunch of case scenarios. In each situation, I&#8217;ll list what a &#8220;nice guy&#8221; would try to do, what a &#8220;good guy&#8221; does, and occasionally what North American society expects.<br />
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<b>Situation 1</b>:<br />
Guy sets up meeting with girl at mall. Girl cancels last minute, and the guy is already there.<br />
Nice guy: Either pretends it&#8217;s no big deal since &#8220;he was in the area anyways&#8221; or gets really angry and flips out and hates women.<br />
Society expects: Guy remain calm and understanding, and chalk it up to the unexplainable nature of women.<br />
Good guy: With a sad voice, says &#8220;I&#8217;m disappointed, I wanted to see you&#8221; and then talks to a cute woman passing by in the mall.</p>
<p><b>Situation 2</b>:<br />
A guy meets a girl at a party. They both seem to get along great and he likes her. They flirt a bit, make plans to meet up the next day, and suddenly the girl says &#8220;oh, i can&#8217;t stay long tho, i have to go to dinner with my boyfriend tomorrow night&#8221;.<br />
Nice guy: Looks shocked, might even get angry. He blames her for &#8220;leading him on&#8221;, and thinks she&#8217;s a tease.<br />
Society expects: Guy to stop flirting with her and find &#8220;other fish in the ocean&#8221;<br />
Good guy: &#8220;I understand&#8230; we have enough time.&#8221; and doesn&#8217;t really react to it. He continues flirting with her, keeping discreet as usual.</p>
<p><b>Situation 3</b><br />
Guy and girl both meet at a party. He finds her attractive.<br />
Nice guy: Pretend to want to be friends, while he secretly wants to get into her pants<br />
Society expects: Guy to ask her out on a group activity so she feels comfortable, and maybe transition into a date.<br />
Good guy: Tells her he finds her attractive, without any excuses, and continues the interaction.</p>
<p><b>Situation 4</b><br />
Guy and girl working together. He likes her.<br />
Nice guy: Pretend to want to be friends. Might ask another female co-worker for help.<br />
Society expects: Depending on where. Either completely against workplace hookups or for workplace hookups.<br />
Good guy: EITHER like someone else because he&#8217;s against workplace hookups, or goes for her if he supports workplace hookups. Either way, he does it himself.</p>
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